Dear Queenie,
My husband belongs to a sports club that he says doesn’t allow wives to attend their games, but I have heard that other wives often go to their games.
Queenie, what do you think is going on here?—Worried wife
Dear Wife,
Your husband clearly does not want you around when he is playing his sport. He may think having you there will affect his ability to play well, or his reason may not be so innocent. Tell him you would like to be there once to watch him play and then, if you trust him, drop the subject.