Dear Queenie,
I have what I always thought was a good figure, with a slim waist and large breasts. Now I come to find out my boyfriend is turned on by boyish-looking women with flat chests and I understand why he isn’t physically attracted to me. I don’t understand why he stays with me if that’s how he feels.
Queenie, should I break up with him?—Disheartened
Dear Disheartened,
That depends on how important the physical side of your relationship is to you, and to him. You should talk this over with him to find out how much it matters to him. If both of you feel there is something missing from your relationship, yes, you should break up.
And if you do, you probably will have no trouble finding someone who considers your figure gorgeous.