Dear Queenie,
My wife and I go out regularly with two or three other couples and often some of them have too much to drink. One of the other husbands, when he is drinking, can’t seem to keep away from my wife. He stumbles and leans on her to keep his balance or brushes against her when he walks past – you get the idea.
I think this is just too much. She says he does this with all the women when he is drunk.
Queenie, what do you think?—Outraged husband
Dear Husband,
I think being drunk lowers one’s inhibitions, but that is no excuse for this man’s behaviour. I think the women should all keep their distance from him when he has been drinking and perhaps assign one of the other men to keep the drinker from falling down and away from the women – and to talk to him when he is sober about the way he behaves when he has been drinking.
And if he does not want to believe what he is told, I suggest (as usual) video recording him with a smartphone or other electronic device and showing him the recording when he is sober.